Cross between friendship and love
So ur single and not getting any younger, and ur close gal fren of many years suddenly seems interestin and attractive. Before u confess ur love, there r matters to consider. Is the feelin mutual? Will this destroy years of friendship? Its a big decision to cross over to being a couple for love, unlike friendships required more commitment and patience. ( mostly understanding) And surely, when you choose to be together, everything changes...This is a common scenario as frens :Her: hey how have u been lately pal?You: fine how bout u?Her: not so bad, wanna have coffee later?You: sure, but i have things to do now, how bout 2 hrs later?Her: sure see ya!----------------------------------------------------------------Now as a couple, its all a different world:Her: hello darlin how r u?You: fine baby wat r u doin?Her: Nothin, jus thinkin of u, wanna meet up for a drink?You: Can, but doin something now, meet 2 hrs later?Her: Huh?! why so late?! wat r u doin???You: Er...Liverpool is playing Chelsea....Her: What??!!! you are choosing Football over me!!! Its a stupid game with sweatin men chasing after a ball!! wats so good to watch???!!You: No baby..thats not what i mean....Her: Its ok! you go watch your dumb game!!You: bab..Her: click* (hangs up phone)Now i may have exaggerated this a bit, but i'm sure there are simaliar things goin on. Before you take the leap into the unknown of a relationship. Take time to consider, choosing a partner isn't like changin clothes mind u (eventhough some guys do behave like jerks) .Patience + time + commitment + understanding + love + communcation = a good relationship.Now this is just textbook stuff, everyone knows this but how many of us actually act it out. I admit i myself many of times fall short. So what makes a relationship special and extraordinary? The little "extra". For all couples out there, do something special for your partner, keep the fire goin.Singles..ur time will come...choose carefully...
desong was shot at Monday, March 19, 2007